She was native and the man took advantage of her, now the result has come out:
Here is her story!:
I am a 19-year-old lady. My parents have been separated since I was about 8-year-old, and I’m an only child. Since I was about 12-years-old, I have been engaging in a sexual affair with my mother’s younger brother who lives with us. When it started initially, it scared me a lot, and when I told my mum...
She dismissed my report and accused me of making it up, I even got shouted at for trying to ’spoil his name’. Afterwards, I began to enjoy being with him, I was young, so the little treats he would give me made me feel like he genuinely loved me as he claimed. He was responsible for picking me up from school and I would be home alone with him, whilst I did my homework, he would touch me and I was vulnerable so I responded, and even performed oral-sex on him, and I would promise not to tell anybody because nobody would believe me.
When I was 16-year-old, I moved away to boarding school and found that when I left, I missed him a lot, the way he made me feel, the things he said, the way he touched me, the excitement of the secret. I would come home on the holidays excited to see him, and through the holidays, it would continue, sometimes I even initiated it… On one Christmas holiday, I lost my virginity to him. After that, I genuinely felt like I loved him. I convinced my parents to allow me move back home to attend a day school, and when I did, it just continued. I have never had such strong feelings for any other guy, and whenever I have seen him with women, I’m enraged.To get to the point, I am now in university, and I am still involved in this relationship, I am not dating and none of my friends know, but now, I am 6-weeks pregnant. I have never been pregnant before, and we usually use protection but I am and it could only be for him, because I have never been with anybody else. I informed him, he accused me of sleeping around at university and insists that I get an abortion immediately, I can’t talk to anybody else about this and I am desperate for advice. I have cried, and prayed for forgiveness, and the idea of an abortion scares me, but I still find myself wanting to please my uncle, because a part of me really does love him. I also cannot bear the thought of tearing my family apart.
Should I tell somebody about this, or just get an abortion? Please help!!!
pls keep the babe it could be the next minister of this nation, i know it will difficult to do but you really have to take up the challenge. don't ever think of abortion because it not really the way out the stigma just keep the babe. you are not the first to experience this kind of difficulties in life
ReplyDeleteAbortion is not an option now. Try to discuss the matter with your mum even though she will definitely be disappointed in you. Remember, a stitch in time saves nine
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see this girl ooo..after the secret affair with your blood uncle,you asking for advice...if i slap you ehnn your pregnacy will fastforward to 9months.. don't you dare remove it...you and your mom are so guilty.
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You just started to pray for forgiveness now that you are preg abi? Well say NO to abortion it will only increase the measurement of your sin. Talk to your mother and remind her of the earlier report on your uncle,i think she should take bigger part of the blame!
ReplyDeleteAruu! Speechless.. I would rather advise you keep the baby.
ReplyDeleteKeep the innocent baby at least that's a good reward for being stupid.
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